Desperate Girls
The Badi Girls
Between 7,000 and 12,000 young girls, aged 9-16, are trafficked each year from Nepal; mainly to India. According to Nepal Monitor/On line journal, 2007, there are more than 200,000 Nepali girls in Indian brothels.
The Dalits(untouchables) are the lowest level in Hindu society, and the Badi community, in Western Nepal, are the lowest of the low. As a displaced hungry people group the Badi community has made sexual subservience a way of life. Young girls from this group “serve” other groups. This has become a tradition and means of livelihood. Many girls, even when they are unwilling, are forced to serve as sex slaves. Family members knowingly sell their daughters to traffickers.
Though prostitution is illegal in Nepal, the industry reportedly has links with highly ranked officials and political leaders. Large groups of girls are taken across the border with many police and government officials being in collusion with traffickers and brothel owners.
Traffickers and related criminals are often protected by political parties, and if arrested, are freed using political power. As a result, there is an underlying distrust of police that has led people not to file cases against traffickers.
Domestic action involves activities of NGO’s and other volunteer groups. These groups are playing a major role to address girl-trafficking and sex slaves issues. Some NGO’s are playing a very important role to improve the situation. From creating social awareness to rescuing and rehabilitation, they are providing services (and relief) to those that need it the most – the likely victims as well as the rescued ones. The Lighthouse foundation is one of these.
*See Chandra Kala’s story on this blog site.
Monday, 29 September 2014
Monday 29th. ESL, cockies, and dolls
Sunday 29 September
Not happy Jan |
KFC Nepali style Read the sign carefully |
Please Sir |
Trish meeting her sponsor girl for the first time. Very cute.
The team went to Durbar Square, Bhaktapur, an ancient city, and enjoyed seeing the old buildings, pottery being made, and other arts and crafts. In the afternoon, they went to Swayambhunath, the monkey temple. There are many great photos of monkeys taken by everyone. Some were not so friendly, snarling and baring their teeth, other were very cute, keeping everyone amused. There was actually an artist shop with paintings of the mountains, and the artist is a Christian lady, with Bible texts on the paintings. What a great place to have a christian witness in the middle of a hindu temple. Tomorrow, everyone will be going in all sorts of directions doing their specific tasks This is the most diverse team we have had. So many different things on the go.
Robyn
Friday, 26 September 2014
Friday 26th. Building relationships
Everything in Nepal is about relationships and community. All our training and activities are driven by becoming a family with these lovely people. Trish is with her girls , Nepalese style, preparing them for work. It has been wonderful to see the "light bulbs" going on, as Trish opens up new avenues of thinking. Hannah above after having her face painted by one of her trainees. And below, is Danielle, assisting some of the girls working towards english speaking. The team arrived last night quite weary, but full of stories of their experiences out in the West. They know they will never be able to fully explain what they have seen and done. Mike and Frank loved doing training of the pastors, and everyone has seen the places that some of our girls come from. It is quite confronting.
Peter is teaching ESL and I will get a photo of that in the future. Today is team day off, so we are going out together this afternoon. The ladies who arrived last night have been washing all morning in the little twin tub mating. They had mountains of washing.
robyn
Wednesday, 24 September 2014
Tuesday 23. Going west
Robyn
Monday, 22 September 2014
Birthday party, toenails and cool dolls
Today, was Trish's birthday. 66 today. I'm sure she won't mind me telling you that. The ladies doing the training and the girls , made this lovely mud cake, plus pikelets, mars bar slice, cupcakes, scones etc. It was a great party. Trish and I went to the Hyatt for lunch also to celebrate her birthday, so all in all, it was a good day. Above, is a picture of one of the housemothers with a balloon hat on, and Lyn painting the little girl's toenails at one of the hostels. Also our first completed doll. The others are coming. We only have 7 of them all together, and we will be selling them when we come home.
Robyn
Sunday 21, Clowns, Face paint, Dirty nappies and games
Friday, 19 September 2014
Thursday Party time
We had our party time today and we had great fun. Above is the beautiful afternoon tea and the girls cooked all the food. Then it was on with the fun. The rule is that you have to hold your mouth right, squeeze that balloon between your knees and go for your life. Also passing a tennis ball from one to another under the chin caused great hysterics. Lyn in the blue dress doing her thing, and right at the top, we were doing the Hokey Pokey, (you put your bottom in, you put your bottom out, etc. etc.). Also, the girls putting some finishing touches on their dolls.
Robyn
Thursday, 18 September 2014
Wednesday 17th. Hob Nobbing at the Hyatt
How cute is this little girl on her way to school. Gloria took a photo of her this morning . Gloria, Danielle and Annette decided to just wander into the Hyatt, nearby where we live, and have morning tea. All along the street, and down the driveway, were about 50 riot police, with assault rifles. Apparently, there was a conference there, with important people from a number of nations. So the three of the ladies, just went in, made themselves at home in the restaurant, sipped home made lemonade with mint, and pretended to be the upper crust for the morning. Of course, it was short lived, as they had to join the real world and get back to training. I'm jealous. I must try to get there myself, as I have never been that daring. I always thought you had to be a guest to be there. Tomorrow, we are having a little party with the girls, as it is the last day for our classes with this group. We plan a few funny games and definitely some dancing.
Robyn
Wednesday, 17 September 2014
Tuesday 16th, Living dolls and ones in progress
Danielle and Emma showing off their beautiful new Nepali outfits, just arrived from the tailor. They are looking forward to a reason to wear them now. I guess they will get all dolled up for church on Saturday. Also, my lovely girls very intent on the job at hand. They sit there working and singing. Life is pretty full for them nowadays. They are learning so many new skills.
Tim began today. He repaired a scooter in a couple of hours, that the bike shop was unable to be fixed. He also had 11 boys in his training this afternoon, training in bike repair. He has no interpreter so communications are quite difficult. Tim hopes to download tutorials to show the boys how things work. Tomorrow Lyn and Kate arrive at lunch time. Team is growing.
Robyn
Tuesday, 16 September 2014
Monday again. New arrival
Robyn
Monday, 15 September 2014
Monday 15th. Another great ride
Sunday, 14 September 2014
Saturday 13. my girl, hairdryers and groovy sax player
Met again with my lovely girl, all dressed up and looking beautiful. It is so good to give her a cuddle. I caught Gloria sitting on the floor near to the power point to blow dry her hair, taking advantage of the electricity while it is on. Graig, one of our trainers, in church this morning, playing his sax with the boys in the band. Yesterday, we spent doing a little shopping and seeing a little of the tourist centre and had dinner and then home in the pouring rain with grumpy taxi drivers. It absolutely poured on the way home, the street overflowing the gutters. I rained hard all night. It has been lovely today and a little cooler. Training again tomorrow and more interviews for me all afternoon. Robyn
Friday, 12 September 2014
Thursday11- Master Class
Today was the final day for the self defence class for this group. So is guess you could say it was graduation. I just had to take a photo of Josh and our tiny Manissa. She is such a cutie. So just a few shots of the girls in action. Next week, the cooking class and the self defence class swap over. We had a new stove installed today which is a bit more modern than the last one (modern for Nepal). Gloria and Danielle had a great week. Danielle is giving Gloria some instruction as we speak, how to post a photo on the phone and install an ap. It is good to have some techno. young people for the more senior members of us who have no clue. The dolls bodies and heads are made and next week we concentrate on drawing faces and
putting on hair and making clothes. I don't know if we can accomplish this in 5 two hour lessons as they are not too good at the drawing part. Tomorrow in team day off, so we will be going into Thamel for the afternoon to see the tourist area, and then have dinner in town. Two new team members arrive tomorrow lunch time, only overnighting, and then out to Surkhet , 1 hour plane ride, and 2 1/2 hour drive to the region where the girls come from. Graig is training the pastors from the surrounding district, about 60, I think, and Lyn is doing training of teachers in our school there.
Sorry for the set up with the photos but don't know how to put them on the page properly. Never mind. I'm sure you get the picture
Robyn
Thursday, 11 September 2014
Wednesday, 10th. Landslide in Nepal
Here are some photos of the landslide. You can see how the landslide has blocked the river, and the water will be building up behind it. I wouldn't want to be on the downside of the river. The blocks of houses have been washed into a pile like matchboxes. You can see the concrete foundations have just been pulled up with the houses. Also the rescue of a little boy, one of the lucky ones. Cholera is also a big worry. Clean water too is a problem and lots of displaced people.
As far as the training today, pretty much as the day before. No explosions or anything. It is still the wet season, so we get storms every afternoon or evening. It is a blessing, as it keeps the dust down and everything is cleaner. I'm sure it keeps the germs at bay. There seems to be less sickness, so far. Please pray for those people at Dologhat and that a way will be found to release the water in a slow way so there is not another disaster.
Robyn