Danielle Adamo
Desperate Girls
The Badi Girls
Between 7,000 and 12,000 young girls, aged 9-16, are trafficked each year from Nepal; mainly to India. According to Nepal Monitor/On line journal, 2007, there are more than 200,000 Nepali girls in Indian brothels.
The Dalits(untouchables) are the lowest level in Hindu society, and the Badi community, in Western Nepal, are the lowest of the low. As a displaced hungry people group the Badi community has made sexual subservience a way of life. Young girls from this group “serve” other groups. This has become a tradition and means of livelihood. Many girls, even when they are unwilling, are forced to serve as sex slaves. Family members knowingly sell their daughters to traffickers.
Though prostitution is illegal in Nepal, the industry reportedly has links with highly ranked officials and political leaders. Large groups of girls are taken across the border with many police and government officials being in collusion with traffickers and brothel owners.
Traffickers and related criminals are often protected by political parties, and if arrested, are freed using political power. As a result, there is an underlying distrust of police that has led people not to file cases against traffickers.
Domestic action involves activities of NGO’s and other volunteer groups. These groups are playing a major role to address girl-trafficking and sex slaves issues. Some NGO’s are playing a very important role to improve the situation. From creating social awareness to rescuing and rehabilitation, they are providing services (and relief) to those that need it the most – the likely victims as well as the rescued ones. The Lighthouse foundation is one of these.
*See Chandra Kala’s story on this blog site.
Sunday, 24 November 2013
Charlton Christian College Nepal Mission Team
Danielle Adamo
Sunday, 17 November 2013
Charlton Christian College Mission
We've arrived in Nepal and we've instantly fallen in love with the place. The roads are dirt, the driving is hectic, it's pushy and shove and the people in the street treat each other like "I was here first, move".
There are cows wandering the streets, the sacred cows, upheld by the Hindu beliefs. The guest house is comfortable and we'll be well rested tomorrow and ready to commence work where ever we're needed. The travel here has been tiring, but so worth it. You can see the poverty of the people we've passed on our way to the guest house, picking nits out of each others hair, living under a few sticks with a piece of tin over the top, people living beside the road with children, living of rubbish tips, no welfare support or emergency services here. That's why I thank God that he's given us the opportunity to be here.
I'm really missing my family.
Danielle Adamo
Sunday, 13 October 2013
Oct., 12th, Home again.
It is Sunday morning, and all the groups have arrived safely in Oz. weary, but feeling much was accomplished. It was nice to wake up to serenity, with only the birds in the trees out the back of our house. When we walk in the door, we are again confronted with how well off we are, after being in Nepal where people live in such need. I don't miss the 5 a.m. hacking and spitting, the roosters, and the beeping vehicles, tooting as they approach each turn in our narrow lane to warn any oncoming cars or bikes. It is also nice to come to back clean streets, law and order on the roads, and an organised society. But chaos, colour, unpredictability, warm smiles, restored lives, and joy are all part of the appeal. I shed some tears saying goodbye to those we love, those courageous women and girls whom are getting on with life, after all they have been through. They are my heroes. Grahame is going back on 5th of November, firstly to China, to address a conference of Christian Education, and then on to Nepal for another 3weeks, as we have 3school teams coming consecutively. We then return on 27th December for 4weeks, and then again March/April next year. I hope the blog has enabled you to walk the journey with us a little bit.
Robyn
Thursday, 10 October 2013
Thursday, 10th, Last day.
It is afternoon, and we are all weary from the last month. Grahame returned from India quite exhausted. So tragic to see what is happening to girls there. The need is so overwhelming , it is easy to be discouraged but then I see our girls and women and babies here, and we just have to focus on that and rescue one at a time. One of our new half-way house girls, only 14, told me her story today and the brutality to this sweet, tiny little girl is inconceivable. She said she has only known hated and torture, but since being here she only knows, love,love,love. This morning, Josh did a cooking class with about half a dozen of the women , including our beautiful little 14 year old. They made chocolate muffins with whipped cream, and then made coffee on our snazzy coffee machine, and proudly delivered the food to everyone here. The muffins were beautiful.
Josh and Aaron sang to them for a couple of hours afterwards. They did'nt want to go home. It is so great to see them smiling and clapping along and having something good in their lives. The young couple who caretaker here have been enjoying it too. They have been such a great help to us when we need understanding of culture or help in any thing we need. They are such humble, willing people. We are not particularly looking forward to the flight home. About 13 hours flying time plus a 6 hour stopover in Bangkok.
Muffin Class |
Sunday, 6 October 2013
06/10/13
Early this morning as we all slept, we were wakened by the eerie call of Kangling. ( Blowing a human leg bone- preferably from a criminal), to summon the evil spirits. The feeling of evil was palpable in the air as the Buddhist wound his way through the streets causing all the dogs to bark. It was a reminder that our struggle is against the powers of this dark world and the spiritual forces of evil in which this nation is steeped.
As I sit here tonight, the final night of my 3 week visit , I am both sad and excited. Tomorrow I leave to return home to my husband, children and grandchildren who I can't wait to see. I am sad because this time has come to an end and I shall miss the many friends I have here. Working with the Halfway House women and girls and the Tusal Hostel girls has been wonderful. Of course the highlight has been spending time with my beautiful sponsor girl, Ruth. The essence of this amazing place does creep into your whole being, you want to be part of God's amazing transformation of this nation. This trip has been a journey of discovery about myself and what God wants me to do. I am often full of self doubt and unsure of where I fit in God's plan for Nepal but he gave me a verse some days ago. 1Cor 7v17. Where you are right now is God's place for you. Live, obey, love and believe right there. I have no idea if I will return to Nepal (of course I want to), but I do know it has been a privilege to serve these people who are such humble servants themselves. As I leave this vibrant place, I pray The Lord will draw me closer to himself and that I will endeavour to live my life pleasing to him and in tune with his will for me. I am so going to miss the indescribable sights, sounds, smells and perpetual motion that is Kathmandu. Lyn Carruthers.
Corrosion of Beauty
Things I will and things I won't miss about Nepal.
Grahame striding ahead in the distance a group behind trying to maintain pace while further back others looking around these strange environments taking it all in, at the rear I shuffle along at a steady pace keeping an eye on those looking everywhere but at their feet which on these rough tracks is often not the best idea. Some of our team have had some heavy falls and though I get the hurry up from time to time I prefer to keep a rear guard action and watch out for our stragglers.
It is hard not to spend to much time looking instead of watching your footing as the terrain and aesthetics are absolutely awe inspiring. Gods creation, mans ingenuity and social development, the landscape, the smells and the people make for some sensory confrontations. Trekking through this beautiful nation is something we will definitely miss.
On the topic of auditory confrontations we will not miss the early morning Nepali habit of clearing the throat with a dreadful hacking noise that would raise the deaf from sleep and then spitting all over the place, and then there are the men with the same habit.
Nepali 'road roulette' is another item we won't miss in a hurry, taking a breath every time a two lane track is turned into four lanes, at times all heading the same direction until oncoming traffic forces a hasty change, driving into pot holes and passing another car before climbing out of the pothole. Keeping left is obviously optional. Giving way to nothing except cattle. Merging means if put my hand out of the window and wave in a downward motion means I'm coming no matter what. Roundabouts generate the most inspirational driving we've ever seen, there is no sense of driving around the roundabout to an exit when you can cut across four lanes heading in the wrong direction to make your turn, just keep weaving between the oncoming cars until you get there. Reversing into a busy multi lane roundabout being pulled up by a police officer for it, arguing with the copper until the policemans mobile phone rings and while he is distracted continue reversing and drive off!
Time with the team either at an event or catching up at meals with retelling the days stories and antics is another special time each day. Hilarious times, headlamp dancing, gags and photo fun will be more items added to the list of things we will miss. Thank you to all the team players this trip.
The Nepali people have left an indelible mark on our hearts with their ability to welcome you into what ever enviroment, school, home, church, down town, is precious and much appreciated. So many people from many walks of life both churched and non have extended themselves in hospitality and we look forward to reacquainting with these soft and generous folk one day. We are not naive and realise that no nation is without an undesirable element in fact that is why we are here because of the damage they cause, but by and large the people are and have been wonderful and easy to love. The people we will miss the most.
Thank you Nepal,
The Parry family.
Saturday, 5th. Oct. Church, Interviews and Germs
Geoff and Gloria working on sponsorship programme. Geoff with mask trying not to spread his germs
Robyn
Thursday, 3 October 2013
Wednesday, 2 Oct. Sorrow for two families.
This morning, we had a call to go to the half-way house as one of our women had learned that her mother had died suddenly. 5 of us walked over, and sat on the floor with her while she grieved. All the other women sat with us also. We prayed for her and found out a little about her situation. The young woman had come to know The Lord when she came to the half- way house a few months ago. She had shared the gospel with her parents, who also believed so she has the knowledge that her mum has gone to be with The Lord. She has to face that gruelling bus trip of 19 or 20 hours to bury her mother and trek back again. She gets motion sickness also. Life is pretty tough here. Then this afternoon, we heard of one of the church leaders, about four and a half hours away, died from a brain tumor, only about 25. Raju had to go out there to perform the funeral.
On the brighter side, we went to more hostels to photograph our girls, and Josh and Aaron came
to sing to the girls. They really loved it. I think they thought they had Justin Beber (don't know how to spell it. Not a fan) in their midst.
Our front yard.
Our lovely caretakers, soon to be 3.
Rolex, anyone???????????
Garbage collection.
Robyn
Wednesday, 2 October 2013
Tuesday, 1 October 2013
<b><u>Notes from Nepal </u></b>
Spending time most days with the girls has developed wonderful relationships that deepen as we share and spend time in each others company. The stories of past lives may seem distant but reality tells us that only a few months ago a life of struggle and hardship tore deep wounds that surface periodically. The grace that has been extended then floods over them and smiles quickly return, though the scars will take time to heal the outlook of the girls is extremely positive. Their past is behind them and the girls resolutely determine to look forward and upward. This touching recognition of transformation is something that cannot be witnessed and remain untouched.
The bus trip to the Surkhet province and the town of Chinnchiu was an epic ordeal as we negotiated mountain roads, Nepali passing manoeuvres on and off the road, live stock on the road, pedestrians on the road, hawkers on the road, amazing scenary that often slipped onto the road and military check points built on the road. These and the reshaping of your backside to the bus seating after twenty two hours made each rest stop a highly sort after time.
Once there, the school opening was attended by dignitaries and school officials in a formal ceremony that honoured the work in the community. Opportunities in this area abound and the relationships between the school, town leaders and local government are paramount.
After the formal proceedings the youth concert was a time of full on celebration. The crowd packed the venue, hung out windows and doors to gain a vantage point. Pastor Raju was the first to jump on stage to party and from here the crowd spilt onto the stage to really get their groove on. A great time was enjoyed by all.
Our trip home strengthened relationships and gave us opportunity to experience Nepal like locals as our hosts showed us life through their eyes. Eating in local food stalls, stopping at Nepali haunts and learning to appreciate the culture without western influence was a real treat.
We begin again to interview and update photos this coming week and look forward to interacting with girls we are yet to meet. Hearing more stories and seeing God's heart of love poured into lives that respond in tangible ways, will no doubt impact us further.
Thanks for all your prayer support. We are all well and safe.
Geoff, Gloria, Aaron and Brooke Parry
Monday, 30 September 2013
30th Sept. Wild Ride
Last night, we all went into the tourist centre for a meal, as we had only arrived from out west and I wasn't all that keen to start cooking for everyone. We headed off in three separate taxis, always completely clapped out Suzuki's. I had three other ladies with me, and I sat in the front seat, being the only one who knew the way. Boy!!!!!! What a ride. The traffic was manic and so was the driver. Eight lanes of traffic where there should be four; motor bikes, bicycles, trucks, taxis, tuk tuks, pedestrians, all seemingly oblivious of each other. No need to be on the right side of the road. The craziest taxi driver wins. Two of the ladies were not impressed but Lyn and I loved every minute of it. Down side streets, dodging potholes, animals. 30 minutes later, we arrived at our destination totally pumped. I wanted to do it all again. Ahh!!!!! Nepal. I love it.
Robyn
30th Sept 2013
Not for the weak stomach
One of the "joys" of traveling through Nepal is the unexpected sights and smells. Both senses copped a flogging in this case. I take my hat off to one of our Aussie gals who braved the experience.
Josh
A Wonderful Time in Nepal
Helen Blanch (New Hope International- Education Director)
Sunday, 29 September 2013
A bus, a family and 2 changed lives
We were also able to bring back 2 girls that we were able to rescue from slavery.
It's hard to get your head around where they have just come from and what they have endured, but you know that their lives will be changed forever, although they won't be able to imagine to what extent, at this stage.
Josh
Saturday, 28 September 2013
Saturday 28 Weary travellers.
Thursday, 26 September 2013
Wednesday- movement on the station
Robyn
Wednesday, 25 September 2013
Health training in Nepal
The more time I spend with the girls the more I know their stories and it makes everything more real. Before I came I would look at the statistics of the amount of Nepalese girls that get trafficked. But knowing their stories it reminds me that these girls are not just statistics. Each one of these girls Jesus cares so much about and each of the girls yet to be rescued Jesus cares so much about. I'm happy to be part of an amazing organisation that is making a difference.
Crystal Hempsall :)
Tuesday, 24 September 2013
Communications again
Gloria and I have begun photographing all the girls with some updates. Everyone has been doing their little bit towards daily life. Washing up, helping with food preparation, cleaning etc. They are a good team.
Bye
Robyn
Saturday, 21 September 2013
Friday 20 september, my first mission trip..
Friday, 20th, Day off today.
Robyn
Wednesday, 18 September 2013
WEDNESDAY 18th deep appreciation
Robyn.
First Night In Nepal
I am overwhelmed how the capital city of a country can be so deprived of just simple things.
However for many many people this is all they know and will ever know.
We have so much.
I am stilled in my spirit of how much I have.
Gloria
Reflections from a Kathmandu newby
Driving in Nepal was one of the early eye openers as dozens of scooters, trucks, buses, tuk tuks and taxis whizzed past, stopped suddenly and merged mercilessly as we made our way through narrow streets. No obvious road rules apply, beeping horns warn of overtaking or approaching vehicles. Keeping left appears to be mostly optional as does service and repair work requiring more than race tape!
The bright colours chosen to paint the three and four story brick and concrete dwellings that are crammed in was another sensory overload along with the varying strength of pungent roadside cooking odours. Monkeys, cattle and traders line the road side all trying to make enough income for families living in this bustling city. Dozens of cables bound together strung from leaning poles stand just out of reach carrying the electricity to each shop, stall, business house and home. Not a place for a stoic work place health and safety officer.
Today we ventured through downtown Bouhda to the Miriam Baby Centre. Here we met the staff and had a lovely time with the toddlers that were rescued as babies from incredible situations that melt even the hardest heart. It is a pleasure to see and be a part the invaluable work of the Transform the Nations ministry as it makes life changing impact into the lives of those being helped. Later the girls, having finished school came and were thrilled to reconnect with Ma Ma Robyn and meet the rest of us. They sang and danced as a celebration of seeing Robyn again, these young ones appreciate already the change that Grahame and Robyn have brought them.
God is at work here in the midst of poverty, heartache and struggle and those that have joined Him in this place are seeing blessing and answer to prayer in ways that evidence His hand on the work.
Such valuable and meaningful work is not done by any one person nor by only those here and visiting Nepal. It requires the faithful fervent prayers of you the supporters standing along side and partnering in the work. So a massive thank you, keep up the good work.
The calendar is busy for the time ahead and we look forward to each day as it unfolds. Let the adventure continue.
Geoff, Gloria and Brooke.
Tuesday, 17 September 2013
Tuesday 17th
Lyn.
Sept.17. Steamy Kathmandu
Robyn
Saturday, 27 April 2013
Reflections from Oz. (2)
God bless
Robyn
Relections fromOz.
Robyn
Wednesday, 24 April 2013
What a day!
Robyn
Monday, 22 April 2013
Home alone in Kathmandu
Raju and Grahame will speak at a Bible school and we will be away two nights. Linda and liat will stay in Kathmandu and continue on the work of setting up the Voc. ed. program. Sujan has done a wonderful job on the garden. Not long after he finished planting the neat rows of vegetable seeds the sky open up as if on cue and it rained all night. We have great storms here with the thunder rumbling around the hills. Its awesome. There was a very pregnant cat lying on one of the mounds and I was hoping it was not going to give birth here, but fortunately it ran away when someone came to the gate. We can do without a litter of kittens. There are already so many starving animals around the place. There is a dog in the street with an eye ball like mince meat and every time I go out there he is "eyeballing me". Poor thing. I was being followed to closely by a cow today. I had an encounter once before with a bull and I don't want a repeat performance. Looking out our window we see clapped out taxis, motor bikes, funny little men with funny little bikes, with funny little things they are selling.Then the odd cow or two, then the very handsome rooster and his fat hen, women in their bright clothing, and the excruciating sounds of men expectorating. That I won't miss.
Robyn.
Friday, 19 April 2013
Hostel visit
Robyn
departures
Robyn
Thursday, 18 April 2013
Thursday,Braced for interviews
Grahame rang this morning from out in the bush. Three of the ladies have had stomach troubles , but are OK now, but. Grahame has come down with it. He will stay close to the house today. The joys of the third world. There are many joys here though. The passion of these people is so inspiring. We just love them so much. Margaret, Barry andGloria are off today to the tourist area off Kathmandu.
They have worked hard and long days, so they are having a social day before flying home tomorrow. Joanna arrives this morning from out in the bush and she returns to Oz tomorrow as well. I will be here on my own for two days.
Sujan and his wife are here in the little flat upstairs in case there is some drama that requires a Nepalese speaker
Robyn
Wednesday, 17 April 2013
I surrender all.
Robyn
Go west where life is really tough
Grahame here.
I don't blog much as Robyn is doing a great job keeping you up to date.
Linda, Liat, Joanna and myself left Kathmandu late last Saturday with Raju and Rabita (Primary Principal CCS1) for Nepalgunj and on to Surkhet.
We stayed at our usual comfortable hotel in Nepalgunj for 2 nights.
On Sunday we drove west to a village in Bangi where we met up with the pastor Bharat and his wife Sita who attended the ETS training in January 2012 and we met Balkumari who has been through the Bible school. Sita and Balkumari are teaching in one teacher village schools and as they are bother christian who have been though some initial training with us we have decided, in faith, to commit to support them both and continue their training. We were primarily there to Baptise 17 new believers. They are of the Tharu people group and this is the first church HCM have planted in this people group.
We were also asked to speak at a youth program in another Tharu village. It was an ordeal getting there as the road had been blocked due to an upgrade of sorts. They cam and got Raju and Rabita on a motor bike while our van back tracked and took a wide arc on rough roads for an extra 40 minutes.
Both Raju and I spoke there and they are keen to attend out Youth Rally and training planned for Surkhet next September.
On Monday morning we visited the disabled Badi village and photographed 31 girls for the new hostel.
After the shops opened in Nepalgunj we purchased a new bicycle for Bharat as they live 25km from the church and the bike they have is very old and has no gears. It takes them two and one half hours to pedal to church and also to discipleship classes midweek and two and one half hours home again. This is on some of the roughest roads covered in bulldust in the dry and mud in the wet.
Talk about commitment. More tomorrow.
Tuesday, 16 April 2013
Hard labour
Robyn
Monday, 15 April 2013
Monday 15th
Happy New Year
Chinchiu with his laptop, and my I pad didn't want to co-operate, but we seem to have sorted it out. One of the ladies in my sewing class never seemed to talk much and we wondered if she was deaf. apparently, is does have hearing problems, but I found out that someone had cut her tongue in the place she lived before so she has to sort of sign. the other ladies seem to be able to follow along. he cooking classes for the younger ones had finished this week and the older ones are doing the training this week. We will finish their dolls also. It was my birthday yesterday and it was a lovely day, I took my sponsored little girl out to lunch, along with our son,s girl also. Margaret took out two other girls who are sponsored by friends. We took them to Mexican style place that makes great pizza,s. Boy! Can these skinny little girls eat. Then, last night, I had a surprise birthday cake and a bouquet of flowers and a beautiful Pashmina, arranged by Raju even though he is 600 km. away. Our lovely young man , Sujan, who is here to make sure that we have everything we need, very subtly, asked if I had any candles. Then with a look of pride, he led me downstairs to present me with a lovely gluten free cake with chocolate icing. I am hoping the ladies who are out at
Chinchiu will blog of their experiences. They will be having some amazing experiences though the going will be tough. We had installed a water filter, so we don,t have to carry boxes of water home. We also have an ozoniser, to put our fruit and veges in and it cleans it and now we can eat fresh tomatoes, cucumbers, grapes etc. Of course, we are restricted to the power times, but it is a big help in giving us more variety in our diet
Robyn
Thursday, 11 April 2013
Weeks end
Robyn
Wednesday, 10 April 2013
Baking Class
Another thing that has made a huge difference this year is the booklets we are using. They have the recipes in English and Nepali plus a photo of every step. Today, some of the girls will be making a batch of cupcakes, piping and decorating all on their own. They will just use the booklets. Many many thanks to my friend Steph Edwards for making up these booklets. they are invaluable. There will be an assessment of their work but this is low key as we don't want to make them nervous. They are doing really well. It's hard to explain how it feels to look at their happy faces knowing their tragic stories. Their love for God is so evident. Tow of them prayed for me on the first day and it was hard to hold back the tears. They teach us so much.
Margaret Dell
Lit up in Kathmandu
Tuesday, 9 April 2013
Sometimes it is a challenge understanding each other but we have also found some common ground because we are all teachers. as usual I am a bit loud, silly and like to get carried away on my favourite topics. We have found that laughter is a cross-cultural language and I don't mind being the reason for that!!
The other day throughout the three hours we ran 10 different English groups and throughout the girls were able to talk about their learning together, think of other uses for each activity and most of all be active and have fun learning. Today I will be listening as they share some good teaching ideas with each other. I am really looking forward to this!!!
Tuesday - Electricity in the air.
Robyn
Monday, 8 April 2013
Monday
Robyn
Sunday, 7 April 2013
Dramas in Kathmandu
Robyn
Friday, 5 April 2013
Friday. What a week,
Wednesday, 3 April 2013
First Milpani School Visit
I was very nervous but thought I would start the teaching session with a song - I do not have a great voice and it is even harder with nerves but the second time they joined in and their lovely voices encouraged me a lot. The teachers were hesitant to participate initially but with lots of encouragement and some smiley stamps (!) they became more animated and eagerly relayed what their peers had said in a think,pair, share activity and I learned that nearly all of them leave school at 5 and then help their mothers or in-laws with chores,shopping and dinner, study, cyber and then sleep and then early in the morning prepare food for the family and tomorrow get up and do it all again. Some of the teachers travel for one hour each way to school. they certainly are dedicated and it encourages me to see how committed they are to their jobs.
We talked about the two parts of spelling; phonics -the sound and phonemes - the formation and knowledge of the letters. We then had a go at listening to sounds and spoke about the importance of listening well. We had a bit of fun doing a Mr Tongue rhyme which helps students practice correct tongue positions for different sounds. We made plenty of time to see their rooms and talk about what they currently do in their classes I have many ideas running around in my head now for today. I am keen to get their students moving and as they are my students at the moment we will be having some fun and learning today as we do many simple fine motor activities that they can easily prepare for their own nursery and Kindergarten students to build their hand/wrist strength and co-ordination well before they start writing.
joanna henderson
Tuesday, 2 April 2013
Easter Sunday
Robyn
Sunday, 31 March 2013
The grave is empty.
Robyn
Tour guide
Robyn
First impressions of Kathmandu
After a noisy tour of Bouddha street weaving back and forth in front of cars to visit different shops and then visiting the Buddhist Stupa - a weird, bright white Temple full of lost worshippers to a false God -so sad - the real highlight of the day was the visit to the Badi girls hostel at Tusal.
The girls were so affectionate I was blown away -it was a hugfest!! The whole time I was there I would constantly feel a small hand in mine or a an arm go around my waist. The language was a small barrier but some of the older girls could speak some English and we had a clumsy go at some Nepalese words too. No matter how these words came out the girls were smiling and laughing. They were so excited when I would say their name back to them and I showed them some photos on my camera of my class. 'Teacher' was a word they understood and they loved taking and looking at photos of themselves for a lot of the time we were there. Robyn had brought some photos that had been taken on a doll-making day for them to keep of themselves and they treasured them. There was a very quiet, stone faced little girl that Robyn said had come in with calloused hands like a tradesman -she was only about 5 or 6 she never smiled the whole time and seemed so sad. Liz and I were blown away by the loving reception we had been given and it was hard to leave -we will be seeing some of them again to day at a huge Easter service where they will be singing. I am looking forward to hearing their beautiful voices.
Saturday, 30 March 2013
Good Friday
Robyn
Wednesday, 27 March 2013
Arrived
Robyn